✨ Soul Reflection

Real love doesn’t arrive when you’re searching for it —
it appears when you finally stop performing and start being you.
That’s when love can recognise itself in you.

You should be looking for the one who is perfect for you, not your dream person.
They should fit perfectly into your reality — not the fantasy version you keep in your mind.

Wake up from falling in the trance (falling in love) and learn to stand in love — so that you meet the one who overstands you and loves you anyway.

It’s not about finding the person who is amazing,
it’s about finding the person who is right for you — based on your wiring, your truth, your soul pattern.

You want someone who gets you.
Someone who accepts all of you — the light, the shadow, the messy middle.

Stop looking outward for the one who “does all the right things.”
Be your true self around the people you meet.
See who’s still standing when the mask slips.

Who picks you up when you’re down?
Who celebrates your wins and holds space for you when you’re not so loveable?
That’s your person.

It has nothing to do with how they look, what they do, what they own —
but that they can sit with you through thick and thin,
and still see your inner beauty shining through the chaos.

And it goes both ways.
You don’t want to be with the one who triggers you and runs.
You want to be with the one who mirrors you —
the one who can sit with you while your unhealed stuff rises to the surface,
and say, “It’s okay, I’m still here.”

Because that’s what real love looks like.
Not the fairytale, not the filtered photo, not the perfect dinner date.
It’s two souls who can see each other’s truth and stay.

So stop going on the same old dates, always dressed up,
on your best behaviour, saying the right things and doing the right things.

If you decide to choose each other, then you have to accept each other’s wounds as well as the love you share
One sided dating means that you only know one side of the person and is how you end up with the wrong one —
the one who can’t handle your ugly, because they’re still hiding from their own.

You don’t want the one who makes you act.
You want the one who makes you exhale.

That’s the difference between falling in love…
and standing in love. 💫

🕊️ Summary

Real love isn’t about chasing or searching — it’s about showing up as your whole self.
This post explores the shift from falling in love to standing in love,
and why being you is the only way to find the one who’s is also imperfect but perfect for you.

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