💔 Toxic Love Or Love Misaligned?“

by | Oct 10, 2025 | Emotional Healing | 0 comments

đź’” Toxic Love or Love Misaligned?

“The wrong person will never see your worth, and the right person will never make you question it.”

Sometimes what we label as toxic isn’t necessarily bad people — it’s misaligned souls.
When two people vibrate on different frequencies, they will love differently, communicate differently, and even fight differently.

One may crave closeness while the other seeks space.
One wants to talk it out, while the other shuts down.
One gives love through words, while the other shows love through action.
And suddenly, both start to feel unseen, unheard, unloved — when in truth, they’re simply out of sync.

Relationships are not just about how you love, but how you fight — how you repair, reconnect, and re-align after the storm.
A healthy love isn’t one that never argues — it’s one that argues with respect, listens with an open heart, and fights for each other, not against each other.

When the energy between two people is misaligned, even love can start to feel heavy. It becomes a cycle of push and pull, hope and hurt. You try to “fix” each other, instead of feeling safe with each other.

Sometimes the lesson isn’t to try harder, it’s to see clearer. To ask yourself:
✨ Are we growing together or growing apart?
✨ Are we mirroring each other’s wounds or each other’s healing?
✨ Do I feel seen, or just tolerated?

Love that constantly drains you isn’t love — it’s a signal from your higher self saying, “This isn’t your match anymore.”

And if you stay, hoping things will shift while both souls are on different frequencies, you’ll find yourself loving harder but feeling emptier. Real love requires alignment — emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and energetically.


🌿 Soul Reflection

Before calling it toxic, pause and ask: Are we truly incompatible, or are we simply misaligned right now?
Sometimes love needs recalibration, not cancellation. But sometimes, love needs release — so both hearts can return to peace.


✨ Call to Action

Take a quiet moment today and tune into your body.
When you think of this person, do you feel peace or anxiety?
Your nervous system will always tell you the truth that your heart tries to deny.
Choose alignment over attachment — because real love doesn’t just feel good, it feels safe.

Written by Imani Speaks

I’m a soul-led creative who wears many hats — spiritual coach, relationship soul recovery guide, Biddy Tarot advisor, former radio host & DJ, podcaster, and poet. My world blends rhythm, healing, and storytelling — from lovers rock reggae and soul rare groove shows on YouTube, Mixcloud, and TikTok to heartfelt reflections on love, growth, and consciousness. Through music, words, and spirit, I help others heal, feel, and remember who they truly are. I’m forever updating my living journal — called life.

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