π Toxic Love or Love Misaligned?
βThe wrong person will never see your worth, and the right person will never make you question it.β
Sometimes what we label as toxic isnβt necessarily bad people β itβs misaligned souls.
When two people vibrate on different frequencies, they will love differently, communicate differently, and even fight differently.
One may crave closeness while the other seeks space.
One wants to talk it out, while the other shuts down.
One gives love through words, while the other shows love through action.
And suddenly, both start to feel unseen, unheard, unloved β when in truth, theyβre simply out of sync.
Relationships are not just about how you love, but how you fight β how you repair, reconnect, and re-align after the storm.
A healthy love isnβt one that never argues β itβs one that argues with respect, listens with an open heart, and fights for each other, not against each other.
When the energy between two people is misaligned, even love can start to feel heavy. It becomes a cycle of push and pull, hope and hurt. You try to βfixβ each other, instead of feeling safe with each other.
Sometimes the lesson isnβt to try harder, itβs to see clearer. To ask yourself:
β¨ Are we growing together or growing apart?
β¨ Are we mirroring each otherβs wounds or each otherβs healing?
β¨ Do I feel seen, or just tolerated?
Love that constantly drains you isnβt love β itβs a signal from your higher self saying, βThis isnβt your match anymore.β
And if you stay, hoping things will shift while both souls are on different frequencies, youβll find yourself loving harder but feeling emptier. Real love requires alignment β emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and energetically.
πΏ Soul Reflection
Before calling it toxic, pause and ask: Are we truly incompatible, or are we simply misaligned right now?
Sometimes love needs recalibration, not cancellation. But sometimes, love needs release β so both hearts can return to peace.
β¨ Call to Action
Take a quiet moment today and tune into your body.
When you think of this person, do you feel peace or anxiety?
Your nervous system will always tell you the truth that your heart tries to deny.
Choose alignment over attachment β because real love doesnβt just feel good, it feels safe.
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